Personal Guidance, Thoughtfully Explained
Understanding Your Concern
People ask this question in two quite different situations. Sometimes there is a relationship already and the question is whether it will lead to marriage. Sometimes there is someone in mind who does not yet know it, and the question is whether they can be brought round. The first is a legitimate reading. The second is where a great deal of money changes hands for promises nobody can keep, and it is worth being clear about that difference before going further. This page divides sharply depending on which situation you are in, and it is worth reading the part that applies to you rather than both.
- An existing relationship you hope will end in marriage
- Someone you have in mind who is not yet aware of it
- A proposal already made and not yet answered
- Having been offered a guaranteed result elsewhere
What can be read
What a Chart Genuinely Indicates Here
Where there is an existing relationship, the question is readable and reasonably well answered. Where there is not, it changes character entirely and most of what is sold about it is fraudulent.
What follows is what can honestly be said:
- Whether the coming periods support marriage at all, for you and for the other person.
- The compatibility between two charts, where both sets of birth details are available.
- Which of your own patterns tend to recur in relationships and where they usually cause difficulty.
- The likely circumstances in which a partner is met, which sometimes settles the question by itself.
- Whether an existing relationship shows the indications that usually precede marriage.
- How long a current obstruction is expected to last.
- Whether a delay is structural or simply belongs to the period you are in.
Already together
Where There Is Already a Relationship
This is the answerable version, and it is a good use of a consultation.
With both charts, the reading covers whether the seventh houses support a marriage between these two specifically, where the temperaments will genuinely fit and where they will require work, and — most practically — whether the periods ahead contain a window in which a marriage is likely to come about.
That last part is what most couples in a long relationship actually want. Years of 'not yet' usually have a cause, and a good proportion of the time it is a closed period rather than reluctance on anybody's part. Couples who have been together six years and are beginning to read the delay as a verdict on the relationship are frequently relieved to find a date attached to it.
Where the reading shows no such window in a workable horizon, that gets said. It is not a pleasant answer and it is a more useful one than a seventh year of waiting for something nobody has examined.
- Whether the two seventh houses support a marriage between these two
- Where the temperaments fit and where the work will be
- Whether the years ahead contain a window, which is what most couples want
- Years of 'not yet' are often a closed period rather than reluctance
Where to be careful
Claims That Should Make You Cautious
The claims below are made constantly in this particular area, because the people asking are unusually willing to pay.
What follows is worth recognising:
- A guarantee that a named person will marry you, which no honest practitioner can offer.
- A ritual sold as a way to change another adult's feelings.
- A fee quoted before your birth details have even been asked for.
- Urgency, or a warning about what happens if you delay the payment.
- A promise to remove a rival or third person from the situation.
- Escalating costs, with a new obstacle discovered at each stage.
- Any refusal to explain what the chart actually shows.
One-sided
Where the Other Person Does Not Know
The other version is somebody with a person in mind who is not in a relationship with them, and it needs a different and more direct answer.
No chart, ritual or remedy brings about a marriage with somebody who has not chosen it. That is the whole of the honest position, and it is worth stating without softening because the entire trade in this area depends on the softening.
What a reading can do is narrower and occasionally useful. It shows whether you are running a period in which relationships form at all, which is worth knowing before concluding that a particular person is the obstacle. Where their birth details are available, it shows whether the two charts were ever likely to work — and people are sometimes released by discovering they were not. And it shows whether this is a pattern: a fixation on unavailable people is a recognisable chart signature and naming it changes more than any ritual would.
The cost of not asking this honestly is measured in years. People wait a very long time for somebody who was never going to, and they are usually paying somebody to encourage them.
- Nothing brings about a marriage with somebody who has not chosen it
- Whether you are in a period where relationships form at all
- Whether the two charts were ever likely to work, where details allow
- Whether a fixation on unavailable people is the actual pattern
Astrological help
How Dr. Piru Pandit Can Help
Where there is an existing relationship, Dr. Piru Pandit reads both charts for compatibility and for the marriage indications, and identifies the periods in which the question is most likely to move. That is a straightforward reading and often a reassuring one.
Where the other person is not aware of your interest, the honest answer is narrower. The chart can describe your own periods and patterns, and it can say whether the coming year favours meeting someone at all. It cannot direct another person's feelings towards you, and nothing sold on that basis works, whatever it costs.
You will be told which of those two situations you are in and what can realistically be offered. Consultations are confidential, and you are free to act on none of what is suggested.
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How Your Consultation Works
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Share Your Situation
Tell us what has been happening, in your own words and in complete confidence.
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Detailed Chart Study
Both charts are studied by hand before the consultation wherever birth details are available.
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Understand the Influences
The running periods and the houses involved are explained in plain language, without jargon.
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Receive Clear Direction
An honest view of the timing, and a small number of practical steps genuinely worth taking.
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